Dealing with Narc in Mediation
I've been divorced for over two years. We are going to mediation next week because we need to sort out some money and communication issues. I'm bringing an attorney; he is not. He is adamant that he won't use an online communication tool (Our Family Wizard) and won't change how we pay expenses. He wants to compel me to meet with him in person and on the telephone. He wants as much contact as he can get with me.
How can I refuse any contact I don't feel comfortable with without the mediator thinking I won't work with him? I would LOVE no contact, absolutely love it, but I don't know how to work that when we have three busy kids. Last week I had five days with no calls or emails. It was heaven. Then they started in again today. My hands were shaking so badly I could hardly type.