The NC is impossible because I have to see him at work....
The NC is impossible because I have to see him at work....
Seeing him at work every so often just rakes up all the emotions over & over again. I feel strong then,.. I see him ( we don't talk) and my head goes into a spin and I walk around with this big black cloud over my head for days feeling so down & depressed. I've been really good with the NC outside of work, I've read so much about the Narc & their traits & behaviour but then I see him....and wham! I saw him yesterday, my stomach did somersaults, I miss him,.... Long for him it's ok I know I'm actually missing the person he pretended to be before the mask slipped and he wasn't real but I'm going round in circles with this and I beat myself up when I shouldn't. I feel so sad he is the way he is, he was lovely before he revealed his true, inadequate self. I go for a few weeks without having to see him then he's back in the office again and there is nothing I can do about it. :-(
Note to self: do not get involved with anyone you work with again!
The NC is impossible because I have to see him at work....
A year later...
Well.........
Hang in there!
Mine quit! Now I can finally
Fantastic news
Thanks for the reassurance
Hovering
It does get better
UGH!!
Tigiangel
Not really....
Thanks TA!
Absolutely