My XN was obsessed with finding love. Even before we dated he would write pretty deep stuff on FB about love and finding his soulmate. When the girl before me ended things he was posting some pretty deep stuff about love and heartbreak. I think this is part of what drew me to him to begin with. Do they actually think they are so in love with every girl? I mean we know in the beginning it's infatuation and that they are in love with the idea if being loved but why do they seem so obsessed with finding "their one true love" a common phrase I use to hear.
You are using the wrong word, love