My exNarc has finally pushed me to where I couldn't take his control anymore. We were trying to negotiate our Marital Separation Agreement (MSA) and he kept wanting things from me. He basically told me I had to give him all the evidence I had on him in regards to his infidelities or he wouldn't file our taxes as married filing joint at the end of the year. I was so sick and tired of him pushing the goal post. I had given him enough. I told him that I would eat the $6k dollar tax issue at the end of the year if it meant moving this process along (he owes nothing in taxes since he doesn't work, if he was nice and filed joint we'd get money back). He sent an email to our lawyer with the new language and I'm hoping to sign the agreement next week and file the paper work with the court. $6k is worth my sanity.
He is supposed to come to my house Saturday morning to move his things out of the garage. I haven't seen him in 2 weeks but I've heard a mouth loud of anger and hate from him over the phone but mostly through emails. I don't know if I should leave a key for him to take care of the move unsupervised (afraid he could take something) or stay at the house with some friends while he loads up the truck. Any suggestions? I'm still going through all the emotions and I don't know what Saturday will bring. It makes it a little easier knowing he is moving in with his mistress and that she will be his focus.
There comes a time