I let him win...
I let him win...
I'm looking at this discard differently. I decided to let him win. After being treated like gold for the first 2 months and then suddenly being dumped over night and being told "it's nothing personal." I was livid. This was the first D&D. I'd seen it before though in my past... So I know what I'm up against. First I was mad and angry with nasty texts, then tried to make him jealous... now. I want out of this maze. This darkness that I don't want to consume me.
I sent him my last and final message telling him I understood why he changed his mind and I didn't think he was unstable but realized that I was no longer the right person for him. I unfriended all of his family and friends and blocked them all... Including his ex that I reached out to. It's been 5 days and I'm more grounded. I choose to let him win so that I can win ultimately... By him staying away.
I don't want the pain. I want to move on. I don't think I'm strong enough to take a hoover. So I'm brave. I outed him online. Emailed his ex. Let his sister know It's over... Now accepted and agreed we do not belong together.
Now that this email has been sent saying I was stunned and let my emotions control me and I wished him the best in his quest to find love... I agreed with him.
Have I protected myself?
Honesty is the Best
Protected yourself from what?
Time will tell